What do you want to be when you grow up?

Can you imagine no one ever asking you what do you want to be when you grow up?

When you are twelve years old and there is no school for you to further your education. You've never dreamed or thought of your future because there are no options.

How do you find out what someone is passionate about when they have never be asked that question, when they've never dreamed about their future?

How do you tell a girl not to be in a abusive relationship when a relationship any relationshipis her only option?

While doing mission

work I've heard the phrase "that's a first world problem" a lot but today I realized "what do you want to be when you grow up?" is a first world question.